November 9th, 2008 by Nate

Last week I heard an NFL analyst refer to Brett Farve as the quarterback in the NFL with the shortest memory. While I have never really been a Farve fan and certainly not a packers fan, it got me thinking. Farve is one of the best that have ever played the game. The soap opera that surrounding his retirement last summer might have tainted his legacy, but his statistics speak for themselves. Farve holds just about every record in the league for quarterbacks. Not only does he hold the record most passing touchdowns and passing yards, he also holds the record for the most interceptions. He rockets the ball into some tight places where most NFL quarterbacks are much to sensible to take those kinds of chances with there quarterback ratings. Not Farve… And it costs him… big. So, big that he has thrown more interceptions then anyone else is in the history of the NFL. But that isn’t the end of the story is it? Because when he gets his chance he straps it on and makes the same impossible throws, but this time he completes the pass, (holds the all time passing record)
he throws the touchdown, (holds the record for most passing touchdowns)
he throws three touchdowns, (holds the record for most games with 3 touchdowns)
and he wins the game.
How is that possible what is the difference? Well, the analyst I was listening to, seemed to think it was… his ablilty… to forget. That last awful pass that he threw to the wrong team, he doesn’t remember it. That incredible touchdown pass that ended in a lambeu leap, not even a recollection. He simple has no memory of his failures and successes on the field. There is plenty of time to analyze and learn from them later. But for now… forget it.
Why am I talking about this? Are you still reading? You are? Good. As a leader, father, communicator, and someone who is following Christ; this idea of forgetting is becoming an important practice for me. Here is the reality… I focus way to much on my successes and I definitely focus to much on my failures. What if I could learn those lessons and discard them from memory? What would change? Well, I wouldn’t rest on my past successes and get too comfortable, for one. I certainly wouldn’t be paralyzed by fear of failing again either. Forgetting would free me to strap it on and take the next step in my journey. Listen, I know… this is a recipe for disaster. I will throw more then a few picks. There will be moments of complete frustration. But I will also see my share of wins. Ultimately, I will advance in my journey rather then sit idle, over analyzing… well… everything.
I will advance in my relatioship with my kids, because how I screwed up yesterday or how I did a great job last week will be out of mind.
I will advance in my relationship with my wife, because my list is gone and I will be in the present moment.
I will try harder the on my next sermon, because my attention won’t be on what was said about the last one. (good or bad)
I will be ready to take the next step in my journey of following Christ because I not focused on the steps or mis-steps that have already been taken.
While I’m on it, I will be ready hear from God today because I wont be beating myself up or patting myself on the back for my failure or success of doing it yesterday.
Life becomes very much alive as a gunslinger, forgetting what is behind and moving towards what is ahead. I think Paul said that somewhere. I think he knew what he was talking about. He knew that advancing meant forgetting. There is no way that it can ever, ever be dull to forget. In fact it takes courage to forget. What about you?
Do you need to forget?
What do you need to forget?
Are you ready for the ride?